UNSPOKEN BUT WELL COMMUNICATED.

 
A bike passed by us yesterday on our way to church, it was a rough and untarred road so everyone had to be patient as they pass.
The bike had two men (they should be in their 40s). The man at the passenger's seat wore a short with a T-shirt which wasn't covering the waist band of the knicker.

I noticed but well, not my business

Then my daughter noticed and she said ah mummy see this Daddy's bum bum outside😮.

I couldn't shut her down because it was annoyingly obvious. Indeed his bum bum was outside!

Then the discussion began, but mummy why didn't that daddy wear his trouser properly?

Look at me I am wearing a trouser and my top is covering my bum bum very well.

Even you mummy, your gown is very long and it's also covering your bum bum.

It is not good to open ones bum bum.

She kept on and on till she got distracted by another topic for discussion.

Hey! Inside me I was feeling like a super mummy because I don't think I can remember any day I sat her down to preach about wearing cloth that covers bum bum properly.

She must have learnt from my own mode of dressing😁

She must have watched what I call beautiful.

She must have been noticing my choice of clothes and the styles I validate.

See en, these children are watching o
They are noticing our choices.
Our character
The values we hold in high esteem.

You can not act A and think you can tell them B is the right way.

They know by what they see us do over and over.

May we not mislead them.

😍😍😍😍


Temitope Gbenga-Afesojaye

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