Letter to the singles

 Dear Singles,

Why You Need to Conduct Background Investigation of Your Intending Spouse.

There was this lady we were dating far back,she always appeared to me as someone without blemishes and i decided to pay her  visit.I was there on a mission, primarily to observe her relationship with parent cum siblings and  generallly characters at home.The rest is history I would not like to share here.




Your partner is not an Angel so expect some imperfections from her/him.
In the course of courtship find out what are your partner weakness and see if those weaknesses can be worked on as time goes on.

Weaknesses that people do not deal with are what destroy most  marriages.
Investigate your partner before marrying them.

Ask serious questions. Probe them. Listen to their siblings,  friends and colleagues. What are they saying about them? Don't just focus on all their good qualities and ignore the flaws only to have them stare you in the face after wedding.

 She argue and abuse her parent In your presence and you think she will not dishonour your own parent In the future??? Watch the way she approach their maids,one day she will approach you or your siblings same way because you are not going to be treated as King all the time.

The reason why you are finding out about your partner's weaknesses is not to criticize or condemn them,  it is to help them get better and know how to live with them peacefully in marriage.

No one is perfect. Not you or your partner.

 

Yours faithfully 

Comrade Kayode Aladelusi

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